Problems are messages. ~Shakti Gawain Failed relationships, mistakes, and other obstacles are intended to teach you lesson. Don’t get so caught up in disappointment and regret that you miss the message. Every challenge is an opportunity for growth.
The difficulties of life are intended to make us better, not bitter. ~Author Unknown Dealing with adversity is like working out. The heavier the weight you lift, the stronger you become. Try not to look at challenges as roadblocks but stepping stones that take you closer to success. What doesn’t kill you only makes you [...]
Confidence is key, if you don't believe in yourself, how can expect anyone else to? ~ Anon The more you worry about what others think of you, the more you are owned by those opinions. Don’t look to the outside world for validation. Don't let someone else's OPINIONS keep you from pursuing your dream. People [...]
The best answer to anger is silence - Anon Sometimes beautiful people do ugly things. When people are hurting, they often say or do things that are outside of their character. Do your best to pause before you respond. Nothing positive comes from arguing with an irrational person. Instead, stay still and give that person [...]
Worry often gives a small thing a big shadow. ~Swedish Proverb Worry does nothing but create imaginary scenarios of things that will probably never happen. Also, fear tends to place value on things that DON'T matter. The more you worry, the more you empower the thing you fear. Instead, focus on solutions, not problems.
"Keep your mind on the things you want and off the things you don't want."Hannah Whitall Smith Thoughts are seeds that grow into your reality. This is why negative people tend to attract bad experiences into their lives. On the other hand, those who focus on the good and have positive attitudes benefit more from [...]
Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. ~M. Kathleen Casey The challenges in your life don’t matter as much as your RESPONSE to those challenges. You can have 2 people experience the same EXACT hardship and 2 completely DIFFERENT outcomes. The difference is the RESPONSE. Don't dwell on your mistakes. Instead focus on a fix so [...]
"If something small has the power to upset you, does that not say something about your size?" -Anon Sometimes, the things we find annoying are a reflection of what’s going on in our own lives. If it’s not a part of you, it shouldn’t bother you. This is why it’s easier for some to walk [...]
Never confuse help for “hate.” – Maria More Sometimes, “Hater” is a term that is used too loosely. Just because someone disagrees with you, doesn’t mean they’re hating. In fact, the person may actually be looking out for you. Don’t become so paranoid that you think everyone is out to get you. Criticism is designed [...]
“Always focus on the front windshield and not the review mirror.” ― Colin Powell If something doesn't make you feel good, don't think about it. The things you give your attention to grow. The more you worry about past mistakes, the less likely you'll be able to move on with your life. Instead of looking [...]